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Sibling wars - the roller coaster life with siblings

 If you have siblings, congratulations! - you’ve basically been living in a reality tv show ( like big boss) your entire life. One minute you’re laughing over an inside joke that no one understands, the next you’re fighting over who’s the favourite child. Growing up with siblings is unpredictable, chaotic , dramatic and occasionally violent.

The battle of personal space ( you never win )

Let’s be real- privacy doesn’t exist with siblings. Your room? Not really yours.Your personal diary? The best selling novel in their eyes. Your stationary? Community property. Everytime you scream “ Get out of my room!!” They somehow find a reason to invade your space. But sometimes when you’re having a really bad day, their uninvited presence in your room is the best thing that happened that day.

From small fights to unbreakable bond 

Sibling fights can vary from “ you are chewing too loud!” Or “ you stole my snacks!”. No matter how dramatic the fight was , you’ll probably be laughing the next moment or day( like it never happened) . The funny thing is no matter how much you annoy each other , when someone else is messing with your sibling, their protective side kicks in. Cause only you are allowed to make your siblings life miserable.

The Art of annoying each other

There is no greater sibling talent than the ability to push them to their limits to drive them insane. Whether  it’s about standing in front of the tv ( not letting them watch) or eating all their snacks. As younger siblings, we exist to annoy them. 

My day isn’t over until I annoy my brother.

The unspoken sibling codes

“ Everything that is yours, is mine. But everything that is mine, is not yours”

“ If you wake me up for no reason, prepare for a war”

“ If I go down , you come with me” 

“ When I say ‘don’t tell mom’, it’s legally binding “

“ If you annoy me, I will annoy you ten times harder”

“If you borrow something, You put it back before they notice. ( even if it’s months later )

“When I call dibs, you have to follow it”

Why life with silblings is actually the best!

Sure, siblings can be annoying and downright impossible to deal with . But they are the people who know you the best. They have seen your weirdest faces of life, ugliest looks and the embarrassing  moments. And life without them would be way too quiet and less fun. 

What are some of your favourite siblings moments? Comment down below 

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  1. Paayu5 March 2025 at 21:28

    Honestly so relatable!!! All these funny things make me wanna do the whole siblings thing all over again!! .....not that I would tho! 😅

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